Thanksgiving and Thanks-taking
While most of us are brought up to say “Thank you” when someone does something for us, it can feel rote or empty. I think that part of what Thanksgiving helps us do is re-member what giving thanks is about. It is recognizing that another has had an effect on your life (usually good) AND you want to acknowledge it in some way. The precipitating action might be opening a door or wishing you a good day. Simple enough, yet it is the fact that the other made a small sacrifice to step outside themselves by recognizing another human and did something kind. These gracious acts are freely given and we accept them graciously by replying, “Thank you.” There is grace underlying our giving thanks. Grace – a gift freely given for which we do nothing to warrant – binds our relationship with God. We are made worthy of God’s love and salvation by grace, and for that we give thanks, always and everywhere. While God does more for us than open doors or wish us...